From the Board: March 2023

Each month, a member of the board will share a reflection on the Soul Matters monthly theme. The theme for March is Vulnerability . This month’s post is offered by Betty Hartnett. 


“Vulnerability isn’t good or bad; it’s not what we call a dark emotion, nor is it always a light, positive experience. Vulnerability is the core of all emotions and feelings. To feel is to be vulnerable. To believe vulnerability is weakness is to believe that feeling is weakness. To foreclose on our emotional life out of a fear that the costs will be too high is to walk away from the very thing that gives purpose and meaning to living”  (quote from Brene Brown).
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UUCM Call for Volunteers

To Fill 4 Board of Trustee Positions & 1-3 Nominating Committee Positions Starting July 2023.

The UUCM Nominating Committee is actively recruiting candidates for the following:

  • President position on the Board of Trustees, July 2023-June 2024
  • Vice President position on the Board of Trustees, July 2024-June 2024
  • 2 open Member positions on the Board of Trustees, July 2023-June 2026
  • 3 open positions on the Nominating Committee, July 2023-June 2024.

Please consider either nominating yourself or encouraging a fellow church member to apply for this important work.

Please see details below, and consider serving as we continue to build on the positive energy of our growing congregation.

Member of the Board of Trustees: Trustees partner with the congregation, the council, the professional staff, and the minister(s) in carrying out the vision and long-term goals of the church. They articulate the policy and collaborate with the minister(s) to see they are fulfilled. A fuller description of the position is available here.

President of the Board of Trustees: The President, an Elected Officer, leads the Board of Trustees, setting the agenda and leading the monthly meetings.  This is a one-year term. A more detailed description of the position is available here.

Vice President of the Board of Trustees: The Vice President is also an Elected Officer of the Board of Trustees. in the President’s absence, shall preside over all meetings of Members and meetings of the Board of Trustees. The Vice President shall assume the office of President if a vacancy occurs in the Presidential office, and shall serve in that capacity until the election at the next Election Meeting of Members. This is a one-year term. A more detailed description of the position is available here.

Member of Nominating Committee: Committee members screen and recommend candidates to the congregation for open positions on the Board of Trustees, and the Nominating Committee, at the May annual meeting. This is a one year term. 3 vacancies must be filled.   A fuller description of the position is available here.

Please consider either nominating yourself 

or encouraging a fellow church member 

to apply for this important work.

If you are interested, please fill out the application form:  click here. Applications are due by Sunday, April 16, 2023. A member of the Nominating Committee will contact you after you submit the application. The Nominating Committee considers all the applicants and makes recommendations to the current board. Elections occur at the Annual Meeting on Sunday, May 21st, 2023. 

If you have questions or would like more information contact anyone on the UUCM Nominating Committee:

Fay LaVigne  gmaennis71@gmail.com 952-457-8904

MaryAnn Wiborg  mwiborg@mchsi.com 952-393-4832

Kathy Stuebner  kathystuebner@gmail.com  612-590-9606

Brian Zais   pharquart@gmail.com  612-590-8394

Fred Hulting  fhulting@gmail.com 612-419-5187

Thank you for considering this opportunity to serve and help lead our  congregation.

UUCM as Teaching Congregation for the 2022-2023 Church Year

Fred Hulting, Board Trustee

Six months ago, we welcomed Jill Braithwaite as our full-time Ministerial Intern for this church year.  Jill has been a wonderful addition to our staff, leading worship services and becoming actively involved in the life of our church. 

What led UUCM to hire an intern?  UUCM has been on a journey to strengthen our relationship with Ministers and Ministry. We had a successful Interim Ministry from 2018 to 2020, and since 2020 we have been off to a great start in our Developmental Ministry with Rev. Lisa Friedman.  Becoming a teaching congregation is the logical next step on this journey. As a teaching congregation, we would provide a Ministerial Intern with an opportunity to pursue learning goals and develop ministerial skills in a supportive congregation with an experienced supervisor.  In 2021, the Board decided, with encouragement from Rev. Lisa Friedman, to pursue an intern for the 2022-2023 church year.

During the hiring process we chose to be competitive in recruiting, pursuing strong candidates that were also sought after by other large churches in our area. We are very pleased that Jill chose UUCM, and she has quickly become a valued member of our church community.  In addition to having Rev. Lisa as her supervisor, Jill receives support from the Ministerial Intern Committee (Sue Fust, Karen Hulting, Steve Sundby, Joyce Tregaskis, Brook Wheeler). So far, the internship is going very well for both Jill and the congregation.  We believe this positive experience could lead us to hire future interns in 2024 and beyond.

With an eye toward that future, I want to encourage all of you to learn more about our intern program.  Please watch the Friday update for more news on Jill’s internship, and for opportunities to meet with Jill and the Intern Committee. 

You can also support our intern program by making a financial contribution to the “Ministerial Intern Fund.”  This year we have funded the internship outside of our normal operating budget using donations, UUA grants, and reserve funds.  Your gift will serve as an endorsement of the program and enable us to have the resources to pursue future interns.  To make a donation you may send a check to the church or donate online at bit.ly/giveuucm by using the “Special Fundraising Campaigns” option with a note for the “Ministerial Intern Fund”.

From the Board: February 2023

Each month, a member of the board will share a reflection on the Soul Matters monthly theme. The theme for February is Love. This month’s post is offered by Shelley Buss. 


Turning away from the concept of love that’s referenced around 98.97% of the time, I want to share a few thoughts on what I think is the hardest kind of love to understand and learn: loving yourself. It’s a pretty simply concept really.  Recognize yourself as the #1 person in your life, and treat yourself with priority. But here’s where I think the rub comes in. In order to love yourself, you need to know yourself and be comfortable with that person. As I parent I try my darnedest to be mindful of what I’m teaching and modeling to my kids. Parents, extended family, teachers, and neighbors all silently imprint children with their beliefs and value systems. Our kids become sponges of their environment. So thinking back on your own life, when or how did you decide who you really are, and do you love that person today?  Continue reading →

From the Board: January 2023

Each month, a member of the board will share a reflection on the Soul Matters monthly theme. The theme for January is Finding Our Center. This month’s post is offered by Brian Zais. 


In physics, the “center of gravity” of an object is the point that is, well, centered in the mass of the object.  It’s the middle of the weight, the point at which you could balance the object on your finger.  But it’s not always in the center, and not always even in the object.  If you’re standing with your arms at your side, your center of gravity is roughly in your abdomen, midway between your navel and your spine.  Right in the middle as you’d expect.  If you stick your arms straight out in front of you, your center of gravity shifts slightly forward, but is still located inside your body.  But if you pick up a stool in your outstretched arms, your center of gravity is now actually located outside of your body, slightly in front of your sternum. Continue reading →