Each month, a member of the board shares a reflection on the Soul Matters monthly theme. The theme for February is inclusion. Board Member Adam Elg offers this month’s post.
Recently, we’ve been talking a lot about what it means to be “radically welcoming.” I believe this idea came from recent survey responses asking how we can be more welcoming. I thought beyond just welcoming visitors on Sunday mornings and including them in our community. After all, we do a pretty good job of that at UUCM. So, I began thinking about what it really means to be radically welcoming. Interestingly, my thoughts have largely centered on inclusion. If we’re truly a radically welcoming congregation, one of the things we need to focus on more deeply is inclusion.
I’ve shared with others that UUCM has certainly made an effort to make sure the LGBTQ+ community knows they’re welcome, but what about everyone else? How do we make everyone feel like they are included? I’ve personally thought about it much like a quote I read from Rev. angel Kyodo williams, Sensei, in which it was explained this way: “Inclusivity is not ‘how do we make you a part of what we are?’ but ‘how do we become more of what you are?’” In that spirit, I think of questions like; do you see yourself represented in this community? Are you able and comfortable being your whole self when you are at UUCM?
I’d love to hear your thoughts any time after a service. Your perspectives are important, and I ask for everyone’s help in shaping a more inclusive community.
— Adam Elg, UUCM Board of Trustees Member
