A friend recently shared the following on Facebook: “I’m so tired of being told ‘we disagree politically, but that doesn’t mean we can’t be friends!’ If you believe….” followed by several political views, “then yes, that most definitely means we can’t be friends.”

In these polarized political times, individuals are often compelled to choose sides, which has resulted in division and estrangement among family members and friendships. The emphasis on labels such as left and right, liberal or conservative, blue or red has intensified this divide within our nation, faith communities, families, and friendships.

Upon reflecting on my friend’s post, I questioned whether I should make a similar declaration to clarify my stance and convey that those with differing opinions are not qualified to be my friends. The more I considered making such a statement, the more apprehensive I became. Contemplating life without those close to me, despite our differences in beliefs and opinions, saddened me. I felt for my friend, imagining the alienation between him and his peers. Ultimately, I recognized the importance of maintaining relationships to potentially influence hearts and minds positively.

Considering this month’s theme of centering love through the practice of freedom, I acknowledge my ability to love everyone, despite political disagreements. This extends beyond loving my husband; it encompasses the freedom to embrace everyone. My spiritual practice calls me to love universally, even if others do not reciprocate.

An aspect of my life that may be unfamiliar is the time my husband Roger and I spend at the Wayzata American Legion. Over the years, we have formed numerous cherished friendships and discovered a welcoming community. Although 90% of the members and patrons hold differing viewpoints, including political beliefs, we have embraced the freedom to love this group, just as they have embraced us. Roger, a member due to his father’s service in the Korean War, volunteers by managing the club’s social media and has recently become the resident Friday night DJ. The support he receives there has empowered him to pursue an activity he never envisioned, considering his introverted nature.

It appears now more than ever that embracing our freedom to love is essential, rather than allowing differences to divide us. A notable Bible verse about the unifying power of love, Colossians 3:14, states: “And over all these, put on love, which binds us all together in perfect unity.” This verse highlights love as the ultimate connector of virtues, fostering harmony and unity within a community. Love is paramount in transforming the world for the better, and I am committed to contributing through the freedom to love.